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THE CAPITAL TIMES, Saturday, Sept. 2, 197 11 7edding Justine Niki and Jeffery Schwartz Norman Paskey and Avis Guldenpfennig Chapman-Cheramy Everson-Crans Beth Ann Chapman, 1042 Moorland Oct. 14 is the date selected by Diana and Louis Joseph Cheramy, were Lynn Everson and Randal Joe Crans married today in Christ the King for their wedding in St. Johns Lu-Church. She is the daughter of Mr.

and theran Church, Evansville. Mr. and Mrs. Glenn Chapman, Green Bay, and Mrs. Sherman Everson, and Mr.

and his parents are Mr. and Mrs. Gene Mrs. James Crans all of Evans-Cheramy, McFarland. ville, are parents of the couple.

A graduate of Madison Area Technical College, she is employed by American Family Insurance Co. He works He is employed at General Motors for Pine River Construction Co. in Janesville. Anderson-MiHard Marie L. Anderson and Lewin J.

Millard, 7460 Hubbard Middle-ton, exchanged marriage vows today in Bethel Lutheran Church. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Norman C. Anderson, 5325 Marsh and Mr.

and Mrs. Wilbur Millard, Rewey. I She is a graduate of the University of Wisconsin with a degree in French education. He presently attends the UW. Pelanek-Schwoerer St.

Ignatius Catholic Church, Mt. Horeb, was the setting for the Aug. 26 wedding of Rosemary Pelanek and Dennis K. Schwoerer. She is the daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Floyd Pelanek, Marshfield, and his parents are Mr. and Mrs. Edward Schwoerer, Mt. Horeb.

She is employed as a registered nurse at Methodist Hospital, and he works at Vita Plus Corp. The couple will live at 1911 Greenway Cross. 'Anniversaries 4 4 i i A 1 I Nikl-Schwartz Mr. and Mrs. Edward Niki, Bara-boo, announce the engagement of their daughter, Justine Ann, to Jeffery Allen Schwartz, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Walter Schwartz, Sauk City. She is employed at Industrial Coils and he works at Sauk County Farmers Co-op. The couple will exchange vows Sept. 9 in St.

Josephs Catholic Church, Bar-aboo. Nelson-Stormer Mr. and Mrs. Stig Nelson, 5338 Oak Crest Place, announce the engagement and Oct. 6 wedding plans of their daughter, Ann Elizabeth, and Larry Stormer, son of the Joe Stomers, 935 W.

Dayton St. The couple will be married in Covenant Presbyterian Church. She attended the University of Wisconsin-Whitewater and is area manager for Manchesters stores. He attended the University of Wisconsin and is employed by DOnofrio, Kottke Engineers. WWI Veterans Madison Barracks 2086, Veterans of World War I and the auxiliary will meet at Holy Redeemer Church, Sept.

6 at 1 p. m. All World War I veterans their wives or widows may attend. Newcomers Club Madison Newcomers Club will meet at the Quality Inn, Wednesday at 7:30 p.m. The program for the month will be a one-woman fashion show from Stretch and Sew Fabrics.

Mary McGraw attends floral art school Mary E. McGraw, 4910 Tocora Lane, is taking a special course of instruction at the American Floral Art School in Chicago. Student florists learn how to make modern flower arrangements for the home, for the hospital, for parties or for any other-purpose. Special instruction is received in making artistic wedding bouquets, corsages and other floral accessories. I 4 4 I I 1 i I 1 Gordon-Yentz Mary E.

Gordon and John P. Yentz will be married tonight at 7 p. m. Mr. and Mrs.

John P. Gordon, 5326 Vicar Lane, and Mr. and Mrs. William A. entz, 1204 Douglas Trail, are parents of the couple.

Both attend the University of Wisconsin-Whitewater where she is a junior and from which he will be a December graduate. Ellestad-Rogers Kyle Marie Ellestad and Ronald Raymond Rogers were married today in Hoyt Park. He is the son of Mrs. Gordon Ward, Waltham, Mass. After a wedding trip to Ely, the couple will live at 1116 Ann St.

She is employed as a secretary at Gaarder and Miller Inc. He is a graduate of the University of Wisconsin and is a social worker employed by the State Department of Human Services. DAmico-Schafer The wedding of Judy Ann DAmico, Washington, D. and Kim Allen Schafer, formerly of Dodgeville, took place recently in St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church, Wilmington, Dela.

She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Amore DAmico, Wilmington, and his parents are Mr. and Mrs. Robert R.

Schafer, Dodgeville, who presently reside in Azores, Portugal. She is a graduate of Loyola College, Baltimore, and received her masters degree from Temple University, Philadelphia. She is completing work on a doctorate at the University of Maryland, College Park, and is an audiologist for the Veterans Administration Hospital, Washington, D. C. He is a graduate of Georgetown University, Washington, D.

and is completing work on a masters degree at Morgan State University, Baltimore. He is employed as an accountant for the American Psychological Association, Washington. Yahn-Reynolds Immaculate Conception Catholic Church, Boscobel, was the setting for the Aug. 20 wedding of Kathryn Shields Yahn and Michael Bryan Reynolds. Mr.

and Mrs. Keith A Yahn and Mr. and Mrs. LaVon Reynolds are parents of the couple. Both attend the University of Wisconsin-Platteville.

Vicker man-Wampole Alice J. Vickerman and Douglas Wampole exchanged marriage vows Aug. 19 in Holy Cross Lutheran Church. Parents of the couple are Betty Vickerman and the late Tony Vickerman, and Mr. and Mrs.

Stanley Wampole. The couple is living at 4713 Leo Drive, following a trip to the Smoky Mountains. She is a registered nurse employed at Methodist Hospital. He works as a finish carpenter at Miller Construction Co. Brabenders golden anniversary is Sept.

10 Mr. and Mrs. Edward Brabender, Waunakee, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with a mass of thanksgiving at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, Waunakee, Sept. 10 at 2 p.

m. An open house will be held in the Waunakee. Legion Hall following the mass until 7 p. m. Formal invitations are not being sent.

Brabender and Pauline Ziegler were married Sept. 25, 1928 in St. Peters Catholic Church, Ashton. They are the parents of Sister Rosalind, Milwaukee; Mrs; Stella Nolan, Estes Park, Mrs. Alma Torphy and Mrs.

Lora Schwenn, both of Madison, and Fred, Diamond Bar, California. There are 10 grandchildren and two Renzie Webers to mark golden event Mr. and Mrs. Renzie Weber, Dodgeville, will observe their 50th wedding anniversary with an open house at the VFW American Legion Hall, Dodgeville, Sept. 10 from 2 to 5 p.

m. Formal invitations are not being sent. Weber and Emma Erickson were married Sept. 12, 1928. They are the parents for 10 children, seven of which are living including Mrs.

Isabelle Rakow, Cottage Grove; Mrs. Alvina Phillips, DeForest; Mrs. Ardella Olson and Mrs. Rosella Phillips, Oregon; Nelmer, Wales; Joseph, Appleton and Milan, McFarland. There are 30 grandchildren and 18 Fred J.

Petersons to celebrate golden anniversary Guldenpfennig-Paskey Albert and Lily Guldenpfennig, Aledo, 111., announce the engagement of their daughter, Avis Janesville, to Norman Paskey, Janesville, son of Mrs. Florence Paskey, Marshall. The couple will be married in October in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, Beloit. She attended Monmouth College, Monmouth, 111., and is employed as non-food manager of Eagle Supermarket, Janesville. He is a graduate of Wisconsin School of Electronics and is a audio visual technician at Janesville Area School Districts and member of the Wisconsin Air National Guard.

Thomas-Conner Mr. and Mrs. Homer W. Thomas, Wellington, announce the engagement of their daughter, Jeanette Marie, to Robert Lane Conner, son of the Rev. and Mrs.

George Conner, Oshkosh. She is a graduate of Kansas State University with a bachelors degree in mathematics. She has a masters in finance from the University of Houston, and is employed as a methods analyst for Gulf Oil Chemicals Houston. He holds a degree in history and economics, and masters degrees in real estate and finance from the University of Wisconsin. He is vice president of Underwood, Neuhaus Real Estate Services Houston.

The couple will be married in November. to meet Wednesday All newcomers to Madison may attend. Further information is available by calling Marj Eck at 271-4706, or Mary Lou Reisch, 274-4371. PWP to meet Madison chapter of Parents Without Partners will meet at the West Side Club, Thursday, Sept. 7 at 7:30 p.

m. The program will be presented by the Midwest Sexual Counseling Center. All single parents in the area may attend. A social hour and dancing will follow the meeting. Information about the organization is available by calling 251-3390.

a stranger and asked about his current finances is not rude if he resents it. Travel and resort situations usually permit people to open conversations with whomever they happen to find themselves near, but only provided they await encouragement before launching full-scale into acquaintanceship. A person who addresses his airplane seat-mate with a friendly but non-commital remark, such as I wonder if I might borrow the little bag from your seat pouch there I dont think mine is going to be big enough, must be willing to allow that person the privilege of retreat. MISS MANNERS RESPONDS: I have some friends with a weekend place in the country. Theres nothing much to do there, but its restful, and I enjoy staying there when they invite me.

The problem is that they are late risers, and I get up early. They tell me to make my own breakfast, which I would be happy to do, but the minute they hear me running the water for my coffee, one of them comes out sort of grumpily and makes breakfast for me. Ive taken to staying in my room, reading and pretending Im asleep. How should I time getting up so I dont inconvenience them? Time your emergence from your room with the first sound of running water in the bathroom. That way, you should inconvenience no one (except yourself, of course, because you will find the bathroom occupied).

Mother of Twins Club Mothers of Twins Club will meet at Zimbrick Buick, 1601 Beltline Thursday evening. Further information is available by calling 274-0621. How NOT to meet people on vacation By JUDITH MARTIN troduction and a person who is, for ex- Washington Post News Service ample, stopped in an alley at night by Brewster-Boyd Covenant Presbyterian Church was the scene of the wedding today of Anne N. Brewster and Robert David Boyd Jr. Mrs.

Martin Fliegel, 6605 Gettysburg Drive, and F. A. Brewster, Cross Plains, are her parents and he is the son of the senior Robert Boyds of Madison and Ann Arbor, Mich. He is a graduate of the University of Wisconsin and is employed by the Gordon Flesch Co. being sent! Peterson and Leola Nelson were married Sept.

12, 1928. They are the parents of Mrs. Gene Anderson and David, both of Madison. There are seven grandchildren. on 40th anniversary Children of the couple are Mrs.

Barbara Hephner, Franksville; Mrs. Bonnie Young, Genoa, 111., and Gregory, Minneapolis, Minn. There are five grandchildren. in Blanchardville a view of the Pecatonica Valley, A lunch will be served from 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.

Price of the tour is $2 and also $2 for the luncheon. Rain date for the event will be Sept. 10. Mr. and Mrs.

Fred J. Peterson, 402 Pawling will observe their golden wedding anniversary with an open house at Ericksons Hi-Point Supper Club, Hwy. 18 and 151, between Bar-neveld and Ridgeway, Sept. 10 from 2 to 4 p. m.

Formal invitations are not Heimanns to be honored The children of Maxine and Wilbert Heimann, Brooklyn, will honor their parents at an open house in observance of the couples 40th anniversary, Sept. 9. The event will be held in the home of the couple from 2 to 6 p. m. House-Garden Tour Blanchardville Jaycettes are spon- soring a House and Garden Tour, Sat- urday.

Sept. 9 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. The tour will include six homes with Moore-BaHweg Mr. and Mrs.

Dennis Ballweg are living in Appleton following their Aug. 12 wedding in St. Pauls University Chapel. She is Patricia Moore, daughter of Mrs. Joseph H.

Moore, 5142 Pepin Place, and his parents are Mr. and Mrs. Charles Ballweg, Sauk City. She is a graduate of the University of Wisconsin and is an interior de-signer for Nordon Appleton. Also a UW graduate, he is a physical' I education teacher and coach in Appleton.

Stop not making excuses, Mom; you are responsible for daughters actions There is no lack of advice being given out on how to meet interesting people on ones vacation. The lack, which Miss Manners proposes to fill, is of advice on how to avoid meeting interesting people on ones vacation. People who take the first kind of advice are all over the place on beaches, in airplanes, around swimming pools, on ships, in souvenir shops with that bright opening remark on their tongues and that eager look in their eyes, anticipating the friendship that will change and enrich their lives. Miss Manners hopes they all meet one another and live happily ever after. Its not that Miss Manners doesnt like to have friends.

Some of Miss Manners best friends are friends. But Miss Manners generally goes on vacation with the hope of getting reacquainted with Miss Manners, or whomever she has brought with her for the purpose. If that person happens to be Miss Jane Austen or Mr. Henry James, it does not mean that Miss Manners is therefore in need of meeting anyone noisier. However, people who carry books around with them as conversation starters often bear an uncanny resemblance to people who carry books around for the purpose of reading them.

It is therefore necessary that we develop some sensitivity about conversing with strangers. Many holiday settings come under the old rule that says the roof constitutes an introduction. This means, for one thing, that one cannot enter a friends house without a willingness to attempt to reciprocate any friendship offered, however disastrous it may turn out to be. (Conversely, the sky does not tnecessarily constitute an in- By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN Chicago News Syndicate, Inc. of their grown children.

Please get over the notion that you owe friends and relatives an explanation for your daughters lifestyle. You dont. DEAR TASTELESS ABBY: Why in the world would you want to perpetuate your antiquated ideas on the fashion-minded public? In todays market, with such a wide variety of soft fabrics and feminine styles, there is something becoming for every woman. After years of the unkempt, sloppy look, and polyester pantsuits, women are starting to dress and look like ladies again. FRANKIE INPHILA.

DEAR FRANKIE: Please tell me where to find these lovely, feminine styles. All Ive seen are the oversized, layer on layer, sloppy Russian peasant styles that make most women (me included) look like Mrs. Five-by-Five. Who said the teen years are the happiest? For Abbys new booklet What Teenagers Want to Know, write Abby: 132 Lasky Beverly Hills, Calif. 90212.

Enclose $1 and a long, stamped (28 cents), self-addressed envelope, please. DEAR ABBY: I am heartsick about daughter. She is 33, attractive, popular and well educated, but to get to the point, I am ashamed of the fact that she is living with a man. Whenever I ask her if she plans to marry him, she insists that marriage is not important to her and she is very happy with things as they are. (Abby, how can she be happy?) She has a good position and so has he, and I imagine that they share expenses.

I cant understand why they dont get married. Abby, I am just a normal mother who wants to see her daughter happily married with a family. I want to die when my friends ask me about her. And Im a wreck trying to keep it from the relatives. She was raised in a good Christian home, went to Sunday school and church regularly, and had good examples to follow.

I dont know where she got these loose, immoral ideas. How do parents cope with a situation like this? SICK AT HEART DEAR SICK: Parents are not responsible for the actions.