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Wisconsin State Journal, Sunday, February 28, 1993 COUPLES 7H Engagements Old beau's message haunts her By Cheryl Lavin If Marcy could do it over, she would rewind her life to that Friday night in June and not listen to her phone machine. "Other people's phone machines break down, don't give them their messages," she says. "Why didn't mine fail that night?" It all began in the '60s. Marcy was a junior high student. So was Rich.

He was on the student newspaper staff. So was Marcy. Marcy's best friend told her, "Rich likes you," but Marcy liked someone else. Fast forward to junior year of high school. Marcy and Rich were both involved in a school play.

Now they liked each other. They walked home together after rehearsals. They hung out at a school hangout called "The Pit" together. Marcy wore Rich's ring. The concept of "going steady" was on its way out, but basically, they were.

A year later, they went off to college separate states and saw each other during vacations. nice and asked about him. But she hasn't called Rich yet. "I was afraid that if I called I would see him, and if I saw him I would have an affair with him," she says. Marcy's marriage suddenly seems empty.

Did she forfeit a really fabulous relationship (Rich) for a common one (her husband) because she was too young at the time to know better? Should she call? Is this a sign? She's snapping at her husband, even her kids. She wishes she had never heard that phone message, but now that she has she can't think of anything else. "I keep telling myself that life was OK up until that Friday night that he called, but then another voice says, 'It was boring, it was humdrum, it was she says. "I don't know what will make this end." Have you ever bumped into the person you were jilted for? What happened? Send your tale to Cheryl Lavin, Tales from the Front, Chicago Tribune, 435 N. Michigan Chicago, 111.

60611. came back from shopping. Her kids weren't home, neither was her husband. "Marcy, this is Rich Jackson," the message went (Marcy remembers it word for word). "I hope you don't mind that Janice (their mutual high school friend) gave me your number.

Rich went on to say that he was divorced. He just wondered how she was doing. Hoped all was well. If she felt like it, here was his phone number, two states away. Marcy's first reaction was shock.

How could this guy be gutsy enough to call her at home? Wouldn't he wonder what he was stepping into? What if her husband picked up the message? But Marcy knew Rich, after all. His whole personality was like that wave from the lacrosse field that she always recalled: confident, a little brazen, happy. And now Marcy can't get her mind off him. She went through some old boxes and found the letters he wrote her in high school and college. She called her friend Ja TALES FROM THE FRONT Things faded, but Marcy always remembered how attracted she had been to Rich.

A picture of him wearing his high school lacrosse uniform and waving at her from the playing field stuck in her mind. Years passed. Marcy was still single. Rich called to tell her he and his wife would be in Marcy's city. They met for dinner.

Rich's wife was half gushingly friendly, half wary. She made a point of playing with Rich's hands at the table, leaning across Rich in an intimate way to talk to Marcy. It was a one-night thing, and Marcy and Rich again lost contact. More time passed. Marcy got married, had two children.

Her marriage was good. Rich faded from her mind. Marcy never went to her reunions and only kept in contact with one high school friend. Now we come to the Friday night when Marcy's life changed. It was in June, a hot.

night. Marcy SumnichtBuhler Heidi Sumnicht is engaged to Kevin Buhler, both of Appleton. She is the daughter of Beth Sumnicht, Appleton. He is the son of Don and Virginia Buhler, DeForest. The wedding will be Dec.

18. AltenbergerBlicharz Cara Altenberger, Monona, is engaged to Jeffrey Blicharz, Madison. She is the daughter of Carol Altenberger, Monona, and Erv Altenberger, McFarland. He is the son of Stanley Blicharz, Cottage Grove, and Carol Blicharz, Madison. The wedding will be Aug.

28. WoodwardShultz Tracy Woodward is engaged to Douglas Shultz, both of Madison. She is the daughter of Cindy Woodward and Randall Woodward, both of Madison. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Douglas Shultz, Madison. The wedding will be March 17. HammerSchwenn Kathleen Hammer is engaged to Mark Schwenn, both of Middleton. She is the daughter of Edwin and Norma Hammer, Madison. He is the son of Ronald and Betty Schwenn, Oregon, and the late Edith Schwenn.

The wedding will be May 15. SmithClark Angela Smith, Madison, is engaged to Patrick Clark, Middleton. She is the daughter of Kenneth and Gloria Smith, Rhinelander. He is BuchertSeymour Robin Buchert, La Crosse, is engaged to Larry Seymour, Minoc-qua. She is the daughter of Donald and Joan Buchert, Walworth.

He is the son of Sandy Seymour, Minoc-qua, and the late Marv Seymour. The wedding will be April 17. BlackShields Heidi Black, Poynette, is engaged to Mark Shields, Lodi. She is the daughter of Paul and Vivian Black, Poynette. He is the son of Larry and Jackie Shields, Lodi.

The wedding will be Aug. 7. DenzerJefson Kimberly Denzer is engaged to Curtis Jefson, both of Oshkosh. She is the daughter of Vernon and Linda Denzer, Dane. He is the son of Charles and Mary Jefson, Lodi.

The wedding will be July 24. BurnsLonnebotn Kathleen Burns is engaged to Paal Lonnebotn, both of Madison. She is the daughter of Carol Burns, Hartland, and the late Jack Burns. He is the son of Grynet and Trygve Lonnebotn, Madison. RuettenCorn Doris Ruetten is engaged to Steve Corn.

She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Michael Ruetten, rural Mauston. He is the son of Phyllis Corn, Glenview, 111. The wedding will be Oct.

9. DownsRolefson Rachel Downs is engaged to Michael Rolefson, both of Franklin. She is the daughter of John and Jean Skophammer, Tempe, and Stephen and Cheryl Downs, Muskego. He is the son of Kenneth and Ruth Rolefson, Ixonia. The wedding will be Oct.

9. McLeanDow Peggy McLean is engaged to David Dow, both of Burnsville, Minn. She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George McLean, Duluth, Minn.

He is the son of the Rev. and Mrs. Robert Dow, 1818 Weber Drive. The wedding will be March 20. BlairDahms Christine Blair is engaged to John Dahms both of Madison.

She is the daughter of James and Irene Blair, 1702 S. Whitney Way. He is the son of John and Pat Dahms, Edgerton. The wedding will Horoscope possessions when out In crowds or leaving them behind in cars. Staying Is more fun than going.

Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). Daydreams and memories are worth writing down. A longdistance phone call may not come on time, but this person is thinking of you.

New books you read may change your outlook; study money managing. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). Loving friends are right there to help you through the week ahead; ask for support.

Tonight, you have a special chance to get the point across to stubborn relative or mate about health core. Bargains on practical Items. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 21).

Be willing to help neighbors move In or out. Lots of free advice may be unwelcome, but be nice about it. Romance Is definitely In the air; dont be pushy, because this person Is shy. Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec.

21). Home tasks proceed almost as planned but go better If vou recruit family participation. Tonight, go along with the plan of your date or mate; you'll have more fun. Other Sags under ganlzer and voice of authority; use power gently In family matters; apply yourself to getting house and budget in order, and amaze yourself with accomplishments by the day's end. A light diet Is best.

Taurus (April 20-May 20). Express your artistic side lovingly, through notes or letters or games with children. Find exactly what you're looking for if shopping. A lourney, outing or game of golf with friends Is delight. Gemini (May 21-June 21).

Experiences with a new friend are stimulating your ambitious side, invent something that will make a million dollars for you, or make a few executive decisions on behalf of the family; you're in charge today. Cancer (June 22-July 22). Be clear but kind In communicating with In-laws and those calling from a distance. Super career or learning opportunity Is right in front of you; lust say yesl Take a chance on a new restaurant or sport. Leo (July 23-Aug.

22). A dream Is about to come true; reallyl Spend time with family and trusted friends. Take extra care with stand. Capricorn (Dec 22-Jan. 19).

Complete what you start. Dont pay attention to criticism from a lealous friend. Let the family bring dishes to the big dinner; dont try to do everything yourself. The week ahead swims socially. Aquarius (Jan.

20-Feb. 18). You have lots of fun with new pals. Your parents have wisdom to offer; listen to them. Expect to find romance around any corner.

Play time gives you the healthiest therapy. Pisces (Feb. 19-Morch 20). Terrific relationship with family can be established now; include In-laws. Meet and greet, as your personality is even more magnetic than usual.

Catch up on whatever you're behind on. Horoscope is offered to our readers solely as entertainment. Jillson offers a personal forecast if you dial 1 (900) 903-5858. The cost is 99 cents per minute. By Joyce Jillson Solid progress Is made, especially In home, family and dally budget matters, while the Pisces sun and Mars In Cancer are In harmony.

It's easier to understand problems and see solutions. Traditional astrology holds that the healing of many physical conditions Is expedited under these energies. A big, hot, sit-down dinner for the whole family Is sure to be a winner. Today's birthday. Social status Is an avenue for career moves throughout '93, so choose friends carefully and always use your best behavior In public.

Summer brings romance to a commitment point. Invest that Inheritance carefully in August. Business partnerships formed In September have lucky stars. Past hard work Is fulfilled with recognition and other benefits In October. Aries (March 21-Aprll 19).

You're the or- Jhe only place to give birth just the way you want. the son of Roy Clark, Winona, and Janet Clark, Naples, Fla. The wedding will be June 12. KingKoepp Nichole King is engaged to Rick Koepp, both of Poynette. She is the daughter of Dale and Kathleen King, Arlington.

He is the son of Robert and Peggy Koepp, Poynette. The wedding will be May 8. RichieMokler Theresa Richie, Sun Prairie is engaged to Chris Mokler, Ripon. She is the daughter of Lonny Richie, Sun Prairie, and Georgia Richie, Madison. He is the son of Mary Hartz, Middleton, and Mike Mokler, Ripon.

The wedding will be Sept. 4. JohnsonFraidin Margaret Johnson is engaged to Matthew Fraidin, both of Madison. She is the daughter of Dr. Norine Johnson, Boston, and Charles Johnson, Tampa, Fla.

He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Stephen Fraidin, Chappaqua, N.Y. The wedding will be Aug. 7.

ZimmermanKahl Amy Zimmerman, Glenview, 111., is engaged to Brian Kahl, Madison. She is the daughter of David and Esther Zimmerman, Neenah. He is the son of Thomas and Susan Welch, Cambridge. The wedding will be Sept. 25.

be Sept. 4. MontgomeryKielley Kimberly Montgomery is engaged to Erik Kielley, both of Madison. She is the daughter of Wil I 1 "'II i VI i II I ij sn Imtmmm mmmmB. mwrnsmmmmtum.

Bftimm iihwm L. ml lrrl liam Montgomery, Boise, Idaho, and Heidi Montgomery, La Crosse. He is the son of Earl and Elizabeth Kielley, 3442 Freedom Lane. The wedding will be July 9. TietzKarls Carrie Tietz is engaged to Dale Karls, both of Waunakee.

She is the daughter of Donald and Naomi Tietz, Waunakee. He is the son of Edmund and Virginia Karls, Waunakee. The wedding will be May 22. JohnsonHammersley Bobbi Jo Johnson is engaged to Duane Hammersley, both of Madison. She is the daughter of Patricia Johnson, Stoughton, and the late Ronald Johnson.

He is the son of Dave and Judy Hammersley, Fitch-burg. The wedding will be Oct. 16. ArmstrongGenna Tammy Armstrong is engaged to Steve Genna, both of Windsor. She is the daughter of Keith and Barb Armstrong, Windsor.

He is the son of Joe and Mary Genna, Verona. The wedding will be June 12. Meriter Hospital's Birthing Center, Family-Centered Care is more than a philosophy. It's a fact of life for the over 3,000 babies born here each year, and their families, tenter is the only area hospital offering Single-Room Maternity Care you stay in a private suite from the moment you check in until you are ready to return home. This contemporary approach puts the focus on you and your family, encouraging family participation and support in every aspect of your birth experience, make decisions and choices every step of the way.

Which birthing options best suit your situation. Who will support and assist you during labor and delivery. Your prenatal and postnatal educational experiences. Your visiting hours and who may visit. Even whether someone will spend the night with you and your baby, girthing Center nurses are specially trained to care for you WanlessRunge Kristin Wanless, Appleton, is engaged to Troy Runge, Menasha.

She is the daughter of Duane and Judith Wanless, Prairie du Sac. He is the son of Ronnie and Lavonne Runge, Colby. The wedding will be Aug. 21. BarnesShackett Lori Barnes, McFarland, is engaged to Joel Shackett, Madison.

She is the daughter of Don and Gloria Barnes, McFarland. He is the son of Lyall Shackett, Amarillo, Texas, and the late Pat Shackett. The wedding will be June 26. RindfleischGill Kelly Rindfleisch is engaged to Jack Gill, both of Beloit. She is the daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Richard Rindfleisch, Beloit. He is the son of Lorraine Gill, Reedsburg, and the late Charles Gill. The wedding will be July 10. AdankHaselwander Kari Adank is engaged to Doug Haselwander, both of Prairie du Sac.

She is the daughter of Robert and Eileen Adank, Sauk City. He is the son of Jack and Ann Haselwander, Sauk City. The wedding will be July 10. KokBurke Vicki Kok is engaged to William Burke, both of Grand Junction, Colo. She is the daughter of Julius and Arlette Kok, Madison.

He is the son of William and Joyce Burke, Grand Junction, Colo. The wedding will be July 24. BerggrenCotter Heidi Berggren is engaged to Daniel Cotter both of Middle-ton. She is the daughter of Terrance HansonDaujotas Lisa Hanson, Skokie, is engaged to Michael Daujotas, Broadview, 111. She is the daughter of Patricia Kovalaski, 4287 Acker Road.

He is the son of Ron and Carol Daujotas, Broadview, 111. The wedding will be Oct. 23. CasucciDokken Linda Casucci, Beloit, is engaged to David Dokken, Appleton. She is the daughter of Gino and Patricia Casucci, Beloit.

He is the son of Dennis and Shirley Dokken, 5221 Greenbriar Lane. The wedding will be in June. and your baby; they work with the entire family throughout the birth experience, offering support, answering questions, and providing you with whatever you need, rest assured that you're in a medically-safe environment: each Birthing Center suite contains the most advanced medical equipment available. Meriter also has an excellent staff of obstetricians, pediatricians, and University of Wisconsin-affiliated maternal-fetal specialists, neonatologists, and certified nurse midwives. he idea is to make you as comfortable as possible throughout your Birthing Center stay.

Meriter provides the most up-to-date, comprehensive care available, so that you can remain at ease and in control of this extraordinary occasion. out more about Meriter's Birthing Center, including complete information on all programs and tours, call (608) 267-6468. 202 S. Park Street Madison. Wisconsin 267-6468 WalczakSchutte Rebecca Walczak, Ridgeway, is engaged to Daniel Schutte, Monroe.

She is the daughter of Charles and Ruth Walczak, Ridgeway. He is the son of Daniel Schutte, Monroe, and Elaine Gutzmer, Ridgeway. The wedding will be Aug. 21. RosenWegner Ann Rosen, Madison, is engaged to Carter Wegner, Middleton.

She is the daughter of Willa Rosen. He is the son of Irene Wegner. The wedding will be March 27. and Patricia Berggren, Greendale. He is the son of Daniel and Connie Cotter, 5014 Flambeau Road.

The wedding will be July 3..